MASTERCLASS: Honest Dialogue & NVC
The Art of Honest Dialogue is a twofold act of receiving authenticity through listening, and giving in authentic self expression. It begins with our relationship with ourself and expands outwards into our relationships with others. It is an essential skill and key component in the toolset of all facilitators, healers, space holders, lovers, family members, community members, and honest humans on the path of authentic connection and relating.
Non Violent Communication or NVC for short, is a system of communication that fosters understanding and supports people to hear beyond judgements and differences. NVC is the process of re-organising the mind to see and express underlying essence, revealing our loving and generous shared true nature instead of remaining fixed on the learned and tragic patterns of relating that cloud our shared humanity.
Through the principles and processes of NVC we learn to navigate with greater ease things like guilt, shame, anger, criticism, saying no, recognising and asking for what we want, being compassionate when torn between seemingly conflicting parts, beneficial regret, non coercive collaboration, mourning and more.
Mastering these is an adventure with great rewards. Both for ourselves, our loved ones, our extended community, co-workers and clients.
The world becomes an increasingly happy place filled with moments of connection in unexpected places. Fears of speaking out truthfully are replaced with trust and joy as we gain evidence that we can hold ourselves and others through all the experiences of life. And even when rupture happens, we find we have the skills to repair and reconnect. Life just gets easier and better for us. And as we use our skills to connect to and uplift the whole, the world becomes kinder for everyone and ever-closer to the more beautiful world our hearts know is possible.